The Macho Gentleman’s Guide to Chivalry and Romance

Old-School Values. Modern Swagger. Legendary Love.

About the Book

This isn’t just a dating guide—it’s a movement to restore honor, masculinity, and romance in a world that’s forgotten them. Whether you’re looking to become a better man, lead in your relationships, or build a legacy of strength and love, this book gives you the playbook.

Bold. Real. No fluff. Just the truth.

About Author

Julio Babilonia is a leader, husband, and voice for modern masculinity. With a powerful blend of wisdom, street smarts, and spiritual insight, he helps men rise into their full potential.

This book was co-created with his wife, Patty Babilonia, who brings a woman’s perspective behind the scenes, offering balance, depth, and heart to every chapter.

Inside the Book

The 30-Day Chivalry Challenge

A powerful daily roadmap to practice real chivalry and leadership, helping you show up as your best self.

Real Talk on Masculinity, Confidence, and Relationships

No fluff, just the tools to lead and love with strength

Co-created with a woman’s perspective

Balanced wisdom from both male and female perspectives to help you connect deeper and build lasting relationships.

A Legacy Mindset

Learn how to live with honor, lead with integrity, and leave behind a legacy you and others respect.

Kind words from our readers.

Marcus T., 38

This book hit me harder than I expected. I’ve read a lot of self-help and relationship advice, but The Macho Gentleman felt like it was written for me. Every page called me out and called me forward. It helped me reconnect with who I want to be...not just as a man, but as a father, a partner, and a leader.

Rated 5 out of 5

James W.

Finally! A book that teaches men how to lead with strength and heart. Every page made me level up.

Rated 5 out of 5

Elijah S., 29

What I appreciate most is that it’s not preachy. It’s practical. It’s masculine without being toxic, romantic without being weak, and wise without sounding like a lecture. Every man should read this.. especially the younger generation coming up without strong role models.”

Rated 5 out of 5

You’re not just buying a book. You’re joining a legacy.